Pooja was in a relationship with a guy for at least 6 years but recently she broke him up. Now, Pooja was left alone to attack the heart break. She had been totally broken and lonely; there was no one to heal her. We saw her crying herself to sleep at night, mornings weren’t any better. Well, heartbreaks are not simple. It took her three complete months to recuperate. Now, after three weeks, she looked better. Her life was again back on track. One day among our friends introduced her into a dating website. Initially, she had no clue about what but when she realized the complete potential of the application, we saw her quite happy. She met a man through that dating website, the guy was nice. They seemed compatible but just 3 months ago Pooja married someone else.
But why didn’t she married the man from that dating site, he looked like a nice man? We asked Pooja and then she shared her whole story with us. She told us that the guy was fine at first but finally things didn’t workout, based on her, they fought a lot in later phases.
We asked her entire experience of locating a guy through a dating site and what she shared were priceless. Here are items that she discussed and somehow revealed the fact that dating sites have changed a major portion of our life.
The rawness of love
There used to be a time when people used to drop for their classmates in colleges, they used to travel miles to meet with the girl they liked and today love has become a “fun game” of swiping left and right. You download one application and it introduces you to all the compatible single matches from your locality or area. Now, how do just 1 application predict compatibility between two people?
Folks are confusing love hook upward
Majority of those that you will encounter these dating sites are there for casual dating. Now, what is casual relationship? Love is not casual; it isn’t about just being someone without any strings attached. You can’t expect to locate true love on a dating website.
‘Plenty of fish in sea’
When people are able to find someone so readily over a relationship website, value of individuals is diminishing. You find someone easily on a dating site and then breaking them up is simple because dating websites will always have more people. Dating sites made discovering love so easy that worthiness of a spouse has diminished drastically.
Self low esteem
Someone on dating website free of admirer will surely suffer low self esteem. Yes, being unmarried even after being on a dating website will gradually make people property in low self-confidence. Soon singles on vacation site will start considering themselves not good in appearances.
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