Frustrating things that Occur when you go for love Union

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Love is for fools. No, we are not speaking about the song but in precisely the exact same time, the tune somewhat states a fact that love really for fools. Needless to say, love isn’t a choice; it’s a feeling, just an emotion that you have no control over. You simply fall in love, and you don’t even recognize it. Although love is a really amazing feeling, you can’t ignore the truth that comes with it and of course it has its own set of drawbacks also.

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If you have fallen in love with a person, getting married to this person is a possibility. Now, the thing is that falling in love is not the task; getting married to this one might be the real battle. I’ve witnessed the most bothersome thing about love unions and it was a whole drama altogether. By getting the parents to meet the one you like to convince them, each bit of the saga is bothersome and abnormally amusing.

My buddy Shishir dropped for a girl and that was the beginning of a whirlwind of psychological drama in the most theatrical manner possible. The woman was from the same community but Shishir’s mom did not approve of the relationship and then next three weeks, we witnessed the whole drama. Some portion of it was funny, some portion of it was extremely melodramatic and then there were parts where    we even saw Shishir breaking down and losing all the hope. However, at the conclusion, his mom agreed and everything after that was nearly normal.

This was one of the adventures that taught me the actual struggles in love marriages. I witnessed a lot of annoying things that happened. Take a look.

The parent whisperer

When you’re living an excellent life, your parents are very happy with everything you do and suddenly, you fall in love with a person. Now, your parents not merely hate everything which you do but also your life is nothing but a psychological chaos. You are supposed to convince your parents at least meet your girlfriend. I found Shishir’s mother crying out loud when he used to talk about his girlfriend. Obviously, convincing parents is not a simple task.

The round enquiries

Now, somehow if you figure out how to convince your parents, then unexpectedly they’ll turn into CIA right before fulfilling your choice of woman and will be prepared to assault the girl with quite a few queries, irrespective of relevancy. Do you cook? What all do you cook? What about research? Do you wish to work after marriage? What are your thoughts about Brexit? (Pun intended) Yes, parents are fully capable of requesting anything and everything. Their plan is not to be aware of the woman or the potential bride/groom but to earn her/him jump out of the skin.

The Last battle

Now, the time comes when the two families will be meeting and you really feel like you’re just about to go for picking out a cricket match and you are supposed to bat and bowl for both the groups. You stay alert, stock still and try everything you can to save your connection. You attempt to make sure that none side insults another. You hardly breathe with both the families within the same area. Even if one side, does or says something which you think can ruin everything, you give yourself to control the harm.

And after that in the event that you think that all the above mentioned stages were enough, you are absolutely incorrect. Till the day you tie the knot, your own parents and other relatives will continue their emotional wrath upon you. And you can’t escape them ; you just need to bear with it.


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