I was among these men, who used to think a “happy girl” is fantasy. I’ve been into relationships and marginally my experience every single time wasn’t that good. Each and every girl that I met gave me an expression of her character and I disliked it. Were all of them same? Every one the women I met were insecure, needy, covetous, cranky and nervous, every single one of these. How that can be possible?
It took me some time to understand it was me rather than them. I was the one bringing out the worst in every one of the girls I met. Thanks to my cousin, Kavya, I got to know the error I have been earning until date in every relationship I was in.
Accepting your mistakes is a really tough thing but now I am accepting all of the mistakes I have been making in all my connection. We men do make errors in connection. Some of the mistakes which we commit are unintentional, from utter confusion.
My cousin was kind enough to enlighten me about all the mistakes a man makes in a relationship. Since, he’s dated more women than me and has got more experience; he’s cracked the “Da Vinci Code” finally.
Coming from an experienced guy as him, I would definitely acknowledge that the “words of wisdom” that he’s shared with me and discuss them with you.
Becoming heedless towards her feeling
The biggest mistake guys make is getting oblivious to her emotions. Women are emotional and they just want us guys to admit that.
Unable to understand her
Now, this is possibly the most common mistake a guy make, unintentionally. It would be quite stereotypical but yes girls do change from 1 mood to another faster than the speed of light. She is the woman, know her, at least attempt to. Don’t make it clear you don’t care or you are fed-up; rather make her feel that you love her in all of her colors.
You’ve made something else significant
Ladies want attention. Every girls respond to respect, adoration and attention. If you are giving her the attention that she truly deserves and wants, nothing could fail. I’m not asking you to always be in touch with her, only make her feel important. Make her feel special; make her believe that she is important to you.
Look after her trust problems
Before anything else, build trust and once she starts trusting you, give your all to keep it complete. Normally girls are insecure and you can’t do anything about it. Be patient, build trust.
Making her feel unwanted/ left out
You’re prioritizing something different. Even if you like something more than her, you don’t show it. You adore football; you say that you will watch the season only with her. For some guys work is priority and there’s no harm in it but don’t let her feel unwanted. Do call or text whenever you can.
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