Spices are crucial for food to be lip-smacking and sexual foreplay is one such spice in your sexual life that will keep you looking for more. It must not be skipped as it is the physical manifestation of a reservoir full of emotions for your partner. This does not however mean that you must spend hours cuddling, kissing and using the trial and error strategy to excite your spouse.
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According to a scientific research — both women and men take 10-15 minutes to become sexually stimulated, girls, nevertheless in some cases may take more time. Agreeing with this, Dr. Rahul Gupta, Sexologist at Ashok Clinic states, “Women have a tendency to enjoy sexual intercourse much more than the real sex. Within this light sexual intercourse may be warm up.”
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Tips for a warming up:
- Eye contact: They say silence speaks a thousand words and this non-physical act can make your spouse go weak in the knees.
- Only kiss: instead of groping each other, close your eyes and enjoy a deep tongue kiss or whichever you might have mastered. It is a stimulus that is enough to find a desirable response of getting intimate.
- Dirty dancing: Well even in the event that you’ve got two left feet it does not matter, these not-so-perfect moves can be quite intimidating. Krutika says that both she and her spouse enrolled themselves for a dinner class. At night pristine dance moves may turn out to be perfect foreplay.
- Get gloomy: Put ice cubes on the nape, handcuff your spouse and pour some chocolate syrup, and whipped cream. Take time to wipe it clean with your tongue.
- Gentle touch: Give them a love-bite in a subtle fashion and run your fingers through the torso, arms, lips, stomach, thighs. Just tickle. Feather-tickle can operate but do it using a look-to-die-for.
- Massage: darkened the lights of the space, light the scented candles, and create an ambience — a romantic one. Perform some soft romantic music and give each other a foot or a massage.
- Denying a bit and wink- It is a major turn on. To check-mate remove your spouse’s clothing with erotic moves, and do tease them while you do that. Master the art!
- Scrabble: You’ll love it. Do garbage speaking through those very small blocks of alphabets, and arouse each other with some dirty diction. Prepare a rule-book to it and also have a mantra with it, ‘punish with a spank and reward with a kiss’.
Do not be orthodox and reduce your inhibitions to chat about what might be sexually arousing to your partner. It’s advisable that you do it outside the bedroom because there’s no time to consider when in bed. Dr. Rahul Gupta adds, “It will make both male and the woman familiar with each other and when in activity men can readily get an errection along with also the women’s vagina is going to be lubricated enough to get a comfortable and pleasing intercourse.” Now, what is that for an adventure?
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Avoid trial and error method to see which you would work on your partner. Be prepared because he/she might keep mum then, and surprise you with an embarrassing remark afterwards. But you can surely be experimental: Talk and invent with your partner.
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