It is not simple to be happy at a sexless marriage. Although gender isn’t the be all and end all marriage, it does play an essential role in keeping the partners intimate. Excellent sex attracts the two of you together in the start of the relationship but with the passage of time, it remains a necessity but rather a way of expressing affection in many cases. A joyful sexless marriage takes a great deal of maturity and compassion on the part of the couples to deliver about.
It’d be better for starters that you and your spouse discuss the reasons behind lack of sexual activity in your relationship. Can there be more to it than stress or any medical condition like diabetes? If not, get the proper medical assistance and recover your sexual health. Aside from this, if you have lost interest in sex or especially sex with your spouse, be fair about it. The problem in it is clear but you need to take the risk of getting your partner angry. It’s much better to be more clear on this issue.
Ways to Stay Happy in a Sexless Marriage
- Do not place the blame squarely on your spouse for lack of sex on your relationship. This brings so much negativity in the connection it becomes poised to finish very fast.
- Let go of the pent up bitterness of the past. If this is too hard, consider those happy days you spent with your spouse, particularly those in which sex had no part to play with. There can be a number of sexless methods of increasing intimacy with your partner.
- You can work in your emotional attachment by cuddling; kissing and items which cause you to feel close.
- To develop a new leaf in your connection, you should go to the basics, i.e. enjoying time with one another. Don’t allow things to be as complicated as they are. Dating, videos and all of the interesting things you loved before marriage can help bring back the old spark or at least bring the both of you together.
If you treasure your spouse enough, sex or no sex should not matter. In case you’ve got a fondness for the life you two have created together, the strain of continuing with a sexless marriage may not be overwhelming. You will only have to work on it to stay positive and happy.
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